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How to Choose Flat Back Earrings for Cartilage: A Buyer's Guide
Buying a cartilage earring online is easy to get wrong, because the details that matter most aren't visible in the photo. Here is how to choose a flat back in the order that decides the fit.
Step 1: Start With Your Gauge
- Gauge is the thickness of the post. Most cartilage piercings are 16g or 18g, and your piercer can confirm yours. A post that is too thick won't fit, and one that is too thin can feel loose.
Step 2: Match the Post Length to Your Healing Stage
- A fresh piercing needs a longer post to leave room for swelling. Once healed, a shorter one sits closer and snags less. If you aren't sure which stage you are in, ask your piercer to measure.
Step 3: Choose the Metal
- Solid 14k gold and implant-grade titanium are the usual choices for cartilage. Both are well tolerated, and gold adds a more finished look. Avoid plated or unknown alloys in a piercing.
- (h4 Step 4: Pick the Top Style
- Bezel settings sit flush and catch less, while prong settings let more light into a stone. Pavé gives sparkle across a larger surface. Think about where the piece will sit and how much you want it to stand out.
- (h4) Step 5: Check the Back
- A flat disc behind the ear is what makes it comfortable to sleep on and keeps pressure even. It is the main reason piercers recommend flat backs over butterfly closures.
- (h4) A Healing Note
- Only change jewelry in a healed piercing, or when your piercer has cleared you to. If a healed piercing becomes red or sore after a swap, see your piercer.
- If you are ready to choose, browse the Ara and Selene collections. Both come in flat back styles built for cartilage.
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Ara Flat Back Stud
A heart held in the lightest of settings — a single prong-set diamond in 14kt white gold, so almost nothing comes between you and the stone.
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Ara Bezel Flat Back Stud
The same heart, drawn in a single smooth line — a 3.5mm lab-grown diamond set in a clean 14kt white gold bezel, sleek and snag-free.
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Selene Flat Back Stud
A crescent moon where two cuts meet — baguette diamonds and bead-set rounds tracing the arc in 14kt white gold.
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Selene Pave Flat Back Stud
A slender crescent traced entirely in light — the full curve of the arc set with pavé diamonds in 14kt white gold.
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